Achieving a Balanced Give-and-Take with Men
In any relationship, there needs to be a mutual giving and receiving of favors. Otherwise, one partner may feel resentful of the other’s selfish behavior. As the biblical saying goes, “you reap what you sow.”
A man who likes to do favors and acts of kindness for his friends and family is a good sign, says marriage and family therapist Moushumi Gouse. You should also make it a point to learn more about him as a person, including his personality traits and his strengths and weaknesses. For example, does he aspire to be a father someday? Taking interest in his personal life will help you bond with him.
However, it’s important for both partners to have other priorities in their lives that include hobbies and spending time with friends. Otherwise, both parties could become overly dependent on each other for emotional and physical support. Achieving a Balanced Give-and-Take with Men